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Saturday, August 25, 2012

Anniversary Blog Fest: Meg Benjamin


Living In Vacation Land

I have a sort of different perspective on vacations. While other people are getting ready to go on them, packing the kids and dog in the SUV and heading off to Lake Whatchamacalit, my town is getting ready to make them welcome or get out of their way, depending on the people involved. I’ve now lived in two major tourist destinations—San Antonio, TX, and the Denver suburbs—and the way they view summer vacationers is basically the same. We love them and loathe them, sort of simultaneously.

The biggest problem with living in a tourist destination is trying to work around the tourists. For example, most Coloradans avoid Estes Park at this time of year—it’s the closest town to Rocky Mountain National Park and it’s guaranteed to be a zoo until Labor Day. Some restaurants in Denver (chiefly those around Larimer Square) will be hell to get into until September. Driving up I-70 toward the mountains during the summer is also hell because of all the RV’s and trailers being laboriously pulled over those passes. And some people I know brace themselves every year for the influx of friends and relatives who have suddenly decided to visit good old Cousin Ralph and have him chauffeur them to Trail Ridge Road.

And yet, and yet… Most of us love living in Colorado for exactly the same reasons people want to visit here. It’s gorgeous. It provides all kinds of opportunities for outdoor activities. We can’t really fault other people for coming here too, and we’re also sort of proud that they want to. If you come to visit my state, you validate my choice in living here in the first place. Yes, it’s lovely, and have you visited the art museum yet? Let me tell you where the best pizza is.
So y’all come. Really. We’ll be friendly and as helpful as we can be. We’ll suggest things you might want to see and we’ll help you work your way around the construction (summer is the only time to repair the highways). If you go to Red Rocks for a concert, we’ll answer your questions and tell you how to get back to your hotel. And we’ll wait until the sun goes down and then be delighted when you gasp at the view.

People in San Antonio were always anxious to make tourists feel at home. When they wrote to the local paper to say how friendly everyone was, we all felt relieved. It’s pretty much the same thing here in Denver. While we may grind our teeth at the traffic getting downtown, we make sure to smile at everyone at the restaurant when we get there. After all, they’re building memories, and we hope we can help.

And when you tell us how lucky we are to live here, we’ll agree with you. Because it really is a great place to visit—but it’s an even greater place to live.

About the Author:
Meg Benjamin is an award-winning author of contemporary romance. Her Konigsburg series for Samhain Publishing is set in the Texas Hill Country. Book #3, Be My Baby, won a 2011 EPIC Award for Contemporary Romance. Book #4, Long Time Gone, received the Romantic Times Reviewers’ Choice Award for Indie Press Romance. Book #5, Brand New Me, won the Holt Medallion from Virginia Romance Writers and was nominated for Book Of the Year at Long and Short Reviews. Don’t Forget Me, Book #6, is available now and the latest book in the series, Fearless Love, will be released on October 9. Meg lives in Colorado with her DH and two rather large Maine coon kitties (well, partly Maine Coon anyway). Her Web site is and her blog is You can follow her on Facebook (, Pinterest ( Twitter ( Meg loves to hear from readers—contact her at meg at megbenjamin dot com.


Karen H in NC said...

I would love to visit Colorado someday...along with every other state west of the Mississippi!

I live now in North Carolina, land of mountains and oceans and everything in between! I used to live in Michigan, land of great lakes, Mackinac Island and Fudge! Both are hot and humid in the summertime...but NC is nicer in the wintertime!

kareninnc at gmail dot com

Ingeborg said...

I don't think I would like to live in a tourist destination.

Meg Benjamin said...

Ah yes, there is the winter in Colorado. But I'm someone who likes cold better than heat and since I write full time, I don't usually need to drive in snowstorms so it works out!

Kim B said...

I want to visit more places. My husband has hardly been anywhere and is fine with it. I hate it! I told him, I would just love to see the Pacific once in my life. He totally doesn't get it.

Meg Benjamin said...

Oh Kim, always a bummer when you've got wanderlust and he doesn't!

Hywela Lyn said...

I'd love to visit Colorado -I can relate to your post. I lived most of my life in the countryside just outside a small seaside town in Wales. It was lovely but got really crowded in the summer with the tourists.

Jean MP said...

Would love to visit Colorado, but my husband isn't one for much travel, he likes to have staycations. So I do my traveling via books.

skpetal at hotmail dot com

Meg Benjamin said...

Well, I'm working on Colorado books, y'all--maybe next year!

Catherine Lee said...

I also live in a tourist community. I confess that I have let spew a string of expletives in the privacy of my car more than once this summer because of added tourist traffic and them not knowing where they're going! I'm holding on...October will be here soon. That means cooler weather and very few tourists. It will be safe to go to the beach again and to the popular restaurants again.
catherinelee100 at gmail dot com

Debby said...

It is a tough line you must walk. Tourists can be trying and yet you want them there.
debby236 aT GMAIL DOT COM

Meg Benjamin said...

We do indeed. That bit about Red Rocks was actually based on something that happened--very nice tourists from Philadelphia who sat next to us from Red Rocks and were totally charmed.