But this year I’ve discovered a new secret weapon for getting through this challenging time of year. It helps to have a full spectrum light in my living room. And as long as the sidewalks are clear, I walk 2 miles a day, which also helps. (And in all honesty, it REALLY helps to have a new novel coming out during the holidays, which is happening to me for the first time – it’s so wonderfully distracting! And the weather this year has been gloriously mild!) But here’s my new coping technique: I’m watching movies that I loved in my childhood, especially ones that influenced me.
I’ve been a movie fanatic all of my life. When I was a little girl, going to the movies ranged from being a fun thing to do on a Saturday afternoon to a major treat. I grew up during the days of grand musicals like The Sound of Music, My Fair Lady, and West Side Story.
This was back when palace-like theaters contained one enormous screen and balconies. Musicals had intermissions so you could stretch your legs and go buy more popcorn. Theater lobbies would get dressed up so it felt more like going to a stage play than a movie. It was heavenly. So this holiday season I’m reliving those days by stacking up DVDs of favorite movies from my childhood and watching them when I feel the need. Some are dated and politically incorrect by today’s standards, but the lessons I learned from them still feel fresh.
When I first saw Sweet Charity as a little girl, I learned that if you can’t find a husband, it’s still possible to love and be loved – you just love the people in your life and let them love you back.
Cat Ballou taught me to laugh, even in the worst of situations, and to be brave and resourceful and to never give up, even when things look bleak.
What’s Up, Doc? showed me it’s OK to not be serious all the time – it’s OK to be silly and outrageous and ridiculous.
Chitty Chitty Bang Bang reminded me to think beyond the reality I live in and embrace fantasy worlds. (Although I do hope to live long enough to own a flying car!)
Thoroughly Modern Millie gave me a great role model: an independent 1920s girl, who goes to the city, raises her skirts, bobs her hair, gets a job, and has amazing adventures.
But Natalie Wood in The Great Race gave me the best role model of all: an outspoken woman in the era of suffragettes who does whatever is necessary to live the life she wants to live. When men participate in a fabulous road race around the globe, she’s determined to join the race as a journalist and succeeds, despite a slew of obstacles. Calm and determined, she keeps saying, “I’ll find a way.” This has been my lifelong mantra. Imagine my surprise when I realized I’d absorbed it from this movie.
So when I feel overwhelmed by the craziness or pressure or stress of the season, I gather my lifelong movie friends around me and watch one or more to remind myself of who I really am and how these movies helped me get here. That’s my idea of holiday cheer!
Nelson’s standalone novel, Our Lady of the Absolute, is a fantasy/mystery/thriller about a modern-day society based on ancient Egypt. Midwest Book Review gave it a 5-star review, describing it as “a riveting fantasy, very highly recommended.” Ebooks and paperbacks are available from http://www.mundania.com/, and paperbacks are also available on Amazon and bn.com.
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